Liberate the Wild Woman Within
Maybe it shows up in how you soften your voice.
How you apologize before you speak.
How you shrink in rooms where you actually feel you have so much to say.
You’ve learned in this life to be likable. To wear a smile on your face and be in this kind of energy.
Not to take up too much space because that feels too much and uncomfortable.
Being the one who makes it easier for everyone else.
But somewhere in all of that –you might have forgotten yourself...
Do you feel the quiet ache of not being seen?
Not truly. Not in your rawness, your fullness, your wildness.Have you been pushing parts of yourself down – your anger, your intuition, your desires – just to keep things safe… and smooth?
Maybe you've felt it in relationships, in friendships, in your work.
That small tightening inside. That hesitation before speaking your truth.
The stories you carry but never tell the world.
You might feel there is something inside of you that wants to unfold. A yearning.
For your authentic expression.
For the part of you that knows. That remembers. That feels so deeply and wants to express.
She wants to be met in the fullness of her expression.
Remember that wildness inside you—she’s not a threat.
She’s your compass.
She’s your fire.
She’s the part of you that knows how to lead, love, and create from her wisdom.
You don’t have to keep it all together.
You don’t have to be perfect to be powerful.
You don’t have to be small to be safe.
What would happen if you stopped silencing your energy?
If you stopped caging your life force?
What could shift—if you finally let her breathe?
Do you recognize that feeling of holding yourself back?
Written by Cindy de Vogel
Unleashing Your Wild Energy
1. Feel and Express your Emotions
Give Yourself Permission to Take Up Space
We often shrink ourselves to fit into spaces that make others comfortable. Start with small acts of claiming your space – speak without apologizing, and allow your voice to be heard, even in the smallest interactions. This builds your confidence and starts unlocking your energy
Don’t numb your anger, sadness, or frustration. Instead, embrace the power of it. Allow yourself to feel deeply. Express what is truly inside of you, whether through journaling, speaking to someone, or through movement. Let your emotions flow, not as a weakness, but as the raw power of your human experience.
2.Create Rituals to Reconnect with Your Body
Your body holds so much power—sensuality, intuition, and energy. Set aside time every day to move your body, whether through dancing, bringing your awareness to your breath. Tune in to your senses.
3. Break Free from Perfectionism
The need to be perfect. Recognize when you’re holding back because of fear of judgment or failure. Allow yourself to be imperfect, to show up messy, to try without needing to succeed every time. When you do, you’ll tap into a freedom that is magnetic.
4. Let go of performing
5.Create Boundaries Around Your Energy
Just a reminder: how you can connect deeper with your feminine liberation—you will become more magnetic.
The masculine can feel it when you perform—when your movements, your words, your energy come from a place of “I should act this way,” or “This is how I’ll be liked.”
That’s not how your feminine wants to move.
She doesn’t want to be rehearsed—she wants to be real.
Instead of shaping yourself to be received, turn inward.
Feel what’s alive in you. Meet yourself in the truth of every emotion, every sensation.
Because when you connect with yourself without filters, open your tender, vulnerable heart and embrace all of it, that’s what draws the masculine in. Not performance. Presence. When he feels your heart, there is more depth in the connection.
Bring awareness to where you want to put your focus, what is serving you, and what is not. Start saying “no” when something doesn’t align with your values or energy. Protect your space, your time, and your energy—it’s your most sacred resource.
